Hey guys! Long time no blog!
As you know, Layna and I have been pretty busy (we clearly haven't neglected Instagram) so blogging was pushed to the back burner. But I noticed the other day, that as much hate as we get on our pro life/traditional marriage posts, we've gotten much worse on our modesty posts. Why is that?
We (Layna and I) have deduced that it is a result of our backwards, overly sexualized society. Short shorts? When did those become cool? When my grandma was 15, you could go to jail for wearing a bikini! So, what happened?
Somewhere in there, God was removed. He's been taken out of schools and homes. The two places where he should be the center of everything. We removed God, and replaced it with our fallen human nature, hence the increase in divorce, decrease in the amount of material used for clothing, and overall, a terrifying prospect for those who desire to glorify God by dressing modestly.
Layna believes there are so many opinions on modesty, its crazy trying to figure out what modesty really is. And she's right. But anyone who is committed to dressing modestly knows its value. If you think you're dressing modestly but you're not quite sure, check these off to see if you could rock the modest runway!
1. Place your thumb in the hollow of your throat (that little space that seems utterly useless) and the rest of your hand flat against your chest. If your shirt is lower than your pinky (or you bend over and see anything) its time to grab a tank top.
2. Skinny jeans and shorts. They're a tough one, because as the name implies, they're skinny. But if you can't fit two of your fingers in between the waistband and your leg, then be safe and go for a slightly larger size. Jeans are acceptable virtually anywhere, and if you have a pair that is loose enough with just the right look, you could pull them off for church. The shorts are an absolute NO GO for church, and if they're shorter than mid thigh, its time to say, "bye-bye!"
3. Heels. Why do you think Barbie struts them in every outfit we ever played with? Certainly to not to attract anyone! (*cough* sarcasm *cough*) Heels scream, "LOOKLOOKLOOK!" That doesn't mean don't ever wear heels. Heels are perfect for special occasions and the right pair will make you feel like Cinderella before twelve o'clock. But when you do, make sure you're either wearing a dress or a skirt that's long enough (point four). Also, make sure they're comfortable. In my opinion, blisters that stick around for weeks aren't worth a night of fun.
4. Dresses, skirts. Raised with a father who has a lot of respect for women, I can tell when something is too short, too tight, or too low. Refer to point 1 for the "too low" factor. Too tight? If a celeb would be seen wearing it in the tabloids, then stick with your gut and find something else. Who wants to wear something that had to be plastered on anyway? (Hint* Not. Me.) Too short? if you can't bend over, its out. If your fingers go past it, its out.
5. Leggings. Not pants. Not jeans. If you don't have a top that goes low enough, then don't wear it. I feel so awkward seeing people on the street with leggings and a t-shirt on. And for Mass, unless you have a tunic or a dress going over them, leave your leggings home.
6. Church clothes. We've been invited to a wedding between Christ and his Church. Would you show up in skinny jeans and sneakers at a wedding? Of course not! You'd dress your best and be respectful. Don't wear to church what you'd wear to hang out at with your friends.
7. Wearing anything, I always ask myself, "Would dad say no?" Your dad should be the second most important man in your life (God first) until you're married. He loves his little girl, and wants what's best for her. And if what's best means grabbing a different dress, so be it. Respect his decision and move on.
8. No one should be able to tell what color your bra strap is. Period. Grab a cardigan or a sweater as a little cover up, especially during the summer months at church.
*Extra questions at bottom*
That's all we have for now, and with our schedules, I'm thinking maybe bi-weekly updates could work? Just a thought. Sorry for the super long post, and we'll be back next time with what GUYS think of modesty. God bless!
~R.A.
Additional questions
8. If I knew I was going to meet Jesus today, would I wear it? Am I honoring the creation that is my body with this outfit?
9. Could this lead anyone else to sin?
10. Would I want my future spouse to see me in this?
Bible verses
1Corinthians 6:20
Proverbs 31:10
Proverbs 31:30
1Timothy 2:9-10
